Relationship Coach

​​​Renae Cerquitella 

Sep. 28, 2017

At some point in our lives we will experience grief and loss. Try as we may, nothing prepares us for the long-term recovery process. This episode goes through steps in the healing process. Click here to listen on your desktop.

Nov. 9 Meeting

Oct. 19 Meeting

Episode 13 - Combat Conflict Fearlessly and Fair

Creating healthy boundaries that make everyone feel safe

Nov. 16, 2017

We all have conflict in our lives. Conflict and arguments can occur with just about anyone we know, like and care about. When we examine the way we argue, often we can see a pattern. This episode partners with the exercise “Combat Conflict Fearlessly and Fair” to help shine some light on patterns as well as offering some better ways to argue. The best part: everyone wins! 

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Combat Conflict Fearlessly and Fair

Start   Here

Nov. 9, 2017

This “Ready, Set, Grow” episode is an interview with Oklahoma native, Keri Little. Keri is a business woman, a leader, and a passionate advocate for all women. Keri is proof that no matter your beginnings, you can change your life by changing your mindset. 

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Visit Keri's business websites: Mary Kay and HeyDay


Not everyone will experience behavioral health or relationship coaching first-hand, so I created the Start Here Coaching Podcast. Episodes will highlight the most frequently asked questions in my practice, as well as cognitive behavior coaching (CBC) techniques, and sound guidance, with a mix of special guests, subject matter experts and Oklahoma-isms.

Each week I'll share ways to identify, examine and change unhealthy thoughts, feelings and beliefs, while incorporating more realistic, positive and effective thoughts. Sign up for my podcast through iTunes or  STITCHER (android users) , or watch it from your desktop or other device by clicking here.

Watch for episodes that  focus on Binge Eating Disorder (BED) and other types of disordered eating. If mentioned in the episode, corresponding worksheets, articles, or links will be posted. Oklahoma City residents suffering with disordered eating or wonder if they have a problem, can find help, sign-up for the BED support group, get helpful tips, links, and resources, all within the privacy of their home.

Oct. 19, 2017

Journaling can help relieve our stress and help us become centered, and increase our intelligence. Learn the many ways you can journal and how to get started.

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Why journaling is good for us

Nov. 2, 2017

We often think of grief as something that only happens after a loss or death. However, grief can begin long before death arrives. Grief can happen as soon as we know death is a possibility and has many of the symptoms we experience with regular grief.

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Meeting Learn more about the Nov. 9 Grief Relief Support group 

Grieving before a death

Aug. 31, 2017

Forgiveness can be truly divine and is often a step in the process of healing. However, forgiveness does not always mean "forgiving and forgetting." Learn how to forgive, learn from the process, and create boundaries that keep you safe. Click here to listen on your desktop.

See related article by Will Meek, Ph.D.

Aug. 24, 2017

Getting started is often the hardest part of a journey. This episode discusses the pains and benefits of starting and letting go of the illusion of perfection. Click here to listen on your desktop.

Sep. 7, 2017

The Strategic Outcome Model is a basic format for understanding our thoughts, feelings and our ownership. No matter our age, beliefs, and habits, we can change the way we think, react and live our lives. Click here to listen on your desktop.

Strategic Outcome Model infographic

​​Episode 15 -  Natural Solutions with Geri Chandler (Part 1)

Ready, Set, Grow! Interviews with women who make a difference.

Oct. 26, 2017

Have you ever wondered what a binge feels like and if you are experiencing BED? This episode discusses the feelings and emotions brought on by binging as well as how to self-care during the binging cycle.

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​​Episode 16 -  Natural Solutions with Geri Chandler (Part 2)

Ready, Set, Grow! Interviews with women who make a difference.

Sep. 21, 2017

Binge Eating Disorder (BED) is the most common eating disorder in America. This episode is the first of many to come that puts a spotlight on this disorder. Learn about symptons and how to get help. Click here to listen on your desktop.

National Eating Disorder Association (BED)

Food and mood journal

The Start Here Coaching Podcast

Sep. 14, 2017

Competition in its purest form is a good thing. Whether we are competing with our best self or someone else, competition can drive us to be better. But what happens when competition turns into coveting, an all-consuming desire that can engulf our time and energy? See if how you view other successful people looks more like competition or coveting. Click here to listen on your desktop.

Oct. 12, 2017

Affirmations are powerful statements of self-talk that help you create the successful life you most desire. Learn how to create powerful statements that will penetrate your subconscious mind, which then acts on the affirmations by creating situations that mirror the statements/affirmations that you've been reciting. Click here to listen on your desktop.

How to create positive affirmations

Dec. 14, 2017

One episode wasn’t enough for my entire conversation with Geri Chandler. Listen to the second half of this “Ready, Set, Grow” episode and learn more about Geri’s journey and current work. As an international motivational speaker and business trainer, Geri touches the lives of many people every day. Although her high-energy approach looks effortless, Geri will be the first to admit the struggles she faces while creating a work/life/self-balance.

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OKC Natural Wellness

Nov. 30, 2017

Are you a pleaser? Do you think your tongue will explode if you utter the word “no” to one of the hundred requests hurled your way each year? If you are tired of saying YES and ready to respect your own needs and time, this episode is just for you! I've even included handy tips and phrases to help you say no, while keeping your and family.

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FREE The Power of No workbook 

Oct. 5, 2017

Do you ever feel like a fraud or that you don’t belong? Well, you aren’t alone. At some point in our lives, most of us feel like an imposter. However, there are people that suffer from chronic self-doubt and a strong sense of intellectual fraudulence that they can’t seem to shake. 

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Imposter Syndrome Recap & Exercise

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Dec. 7, 2017

This two-part “Ready, Set, Grow” episode is with a Geri Chandler. Self-care, healing and connecting are common themes in all things “Geri.” Her rocky childhood launched her into early adulthood, motherhood and quest to know more about herself and how to care for her family in deeper more meaningful ways. Now a successful essential oil and natural wellness educator, Geri travels all over the country sharing with others the healing benefits of essential oils. Geri spends time connecting people, caring for her family and homeschooling her children. 

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OKC Natural Wellness